It really depends on the other person, as to how this might work It's hard to learn someone's else's attachment style from a distance. With great risk comes great reward, but risk comes with the chance of failure, hardship, and remorse.

There's a lot to learn in the risk. If you settle into yourself, your patterns, and your own needs wholly, it's hard to become someone different.

Not being financially intertwined with someone sounds great though!