Connection first, always. Even when that isn't what they want. I'm always curious and want that deeper connection. I want to know if you watched Roma and cried like a baby (I did) or if you can handle a frenetic and gory show like Black Summer. I want to know if you watched Living With Yourself and found it to be absolutely hilarious. You know, little things like that. They seem insignificant, but relationships are so much more interesting when you really understand someone's preferences and interests.